well i sorted the golf out!! turns out the water leak making car damp inside which was causing voodoo stuff! so i found leak, fixed it and all works fine and as it should :D which now im selling the golf, very veyr sad decision. but only one bum for so many cars and want to have mroe cahs to spend on my pano :D and wont need golf with pano on road!!
but with tht fixed spent some time with my pride and joy!!! got the gearbox cross member done and in. so dad helped and welded plates on the end, then cleaned the welding dags from where cross members are meant to be bolted to (mine had been welded in when the last engine went in ) so the centre bracket was widened, and plates welded on the ends so the cross member bolts in and out as it should now! may need to put a spacer under the bracket yet, will know when put the drive shaft back in if it clears the handbrake cable ok. looks like all should be ok. drive shaft looks like will be about right length but not sure if yoke is going to be same. will find out in next couple days